How do you know when you are drifting apart?

He resents you even though you basically do all the work at home? wow... you have some serious diseases here.... I am a stay at home mom and am perfectly healthy and that would be the day I would tolerate my husband resenting me for staying home...... like wtf? You need to talk to him about this... because you dont know for sure... there might be something bothering him that has nothing to do with this..... your guessing..... you cant work.... your ill.... stress can kill you with those issues.... the last thing you need is to stress about this!